ipepper - I cannot tell from your info where you are located, but if you are in USA, why not get a Zeagle Stilletto? (Or a Zeagle wing set-up)
It's back inflate, extremely customizable and VERY easy to size well for almost every body size.
While all the components may not be made in USA any more, the BCDs are still sewn in Florida - & very easy to get service in the USA if you need it.
I'm not a rep or related to the company in any way - just a very satisfied user of a Zeagle Stilletto since 2007.
As many other's have said: the key thing is to try many different styles & brands - who knows, maybe you will love the way the crotch-strap on a wing feels...